Common Questions Answered Without Email!

As a person who suffered from severe depression for a long time, the best general advice I can give is to reach out as soon as you realize you need help, that way you can get support as soon as possible. Don't try to tough it out by yourself, that isn't necessary, you're going through enough already.
See below for specific situations, or use this list for general help:
- Student Support and Advocacy Center (SSAC) - offers one-on-one consultations and resources in the areas of interpersonal violence, personal wellness, and alcohol/drug abuse. They also can direct you to many, many other campus resources. If you don't know who to contact, these people can help!
- Counseling and Support Services (CAPS) - offers individual and/or group counseling, workshops and community education programs
- The Office of Disability Services - handles short and long term disability accommodations.
- First-Gen+ Center - offers a lot of support options for first-generation students and students with issues that commonly affect first-gen students
- University Ombudsperson - offers an independent, informal, and confidential resource for discovering university resources and providing informal mediation and conflict resolution.
- Learning Services - offers a lot of support options for things like time management, test taking skills, college reading skills, etc.
| Financial Issues | Food Pantry |
| Crisis Support | Substance Recovery |
| Discrimination | LGBTQ+ Support |
That said, keep an eye on your "short-term" issue in case it begins turning into a long-term issue, e.g. managing a broken arm a car accident, becoming a long-term care provider for a family member, greif and depression after a loss, etc. See next question if that happens.
- If you want to also continue your coursework... sit down and discuss the situation with someone (I'm happy to do this with you, and there are also organizations on campus such as SSAC and CAPS). Either way, explain to someone you trust (1) the situation and (2) your plan for how to continue school. Next, talk to your professors about your situation or talk to one of the campus organizations about talking to your professors for/with you (many of them will do that!). Listen to their advice about getting through the semester.
- If you want withdraw from the semester... If you are having any sort of medical situation (including mental health) or other extreme circumstance that affects your semester, CEC has a semester withdrawal policy for such situations ( "withdraw from a course due to a non-academic, extraordinary circumstance that is verifiable with documentation" . Scroll down to "Withdrawal Request". There are two PDFs with full instructions. This type of withdrawal is different from selective withdrawal; it doesn't get entered into your transcript as a W, and it can be used for some (or all) of your classes in a semester.
- If you want to take even longer... If you do decide to go with a
leave of absence, it works a little differently for international students
and domestic students, here is some information on it:
- Leave of Absence form [domestic and international students]
- Before you leave Mason page [domestic and international students]
- OIPS Leave of Absence page [international students]
- Note: The "Academic Advisor" on the leave of absence form is the person on the other end of csug@gmu.edu
(1) Complete this form which gives me information on how to submit the recommendation, permission to discuss your grades, etc.
(2) Email me to request the recommendation and attach the completed form
(3) Meet with me in-person (during the semester) or on Zoom (over break) to discuss the recommendation and make sure you know what you're getting into :)
Note: You can submit UTA applications before my recommendation goes in, so it's ok if you need to do your paperwork out-of-sync of our conversations.
(1) Complete this form which gives me information on how to submit the recommendation, permission to discuss your grades, etc.
(2) Email me to request the recommendation and attach the completed form
(3) Meet with me in-person (during the semester) or on Zoom (over break) to discuss the recommendation and make sure you know what you're getting into :)
If you have only been my student, then the answer is "maybe". First, you need to have completed the class with me, I cannot give recommendations to "active" students in my classes. So, if you are currently taking a class with me, you'll need to wait until after the course grades are submitted. Second, like with recommendations for UTA positions, you need to have had a class with me recently and you have to have done well in that class (generally an A or A+). If that sounds like you, follow the steps above!
Maybe... I'm always flattered when students think of me for this, but I want to make sure you get the most out of your graduate school recommendations. When applying to grad school the general preference order for recommendations is:
- [Best] Someone who knows you well, is in your intended subject area, and has worked with you outside the classroom.
- Someone who knows you well and is in your intended subject area (but maybe hasn't worked with you outside the classroom).
- Someone who knows you well and has worked with you outside the classroom (but maybe is in a different subject area).
- Someone who knows you well (but hasn't worked with you outside the classroom and isn't in your intended subject area).
- Someone in your subject area who you've been working with recently (though they may not know you well yet)
- [Least-Best] Someone in your subject area.
And then to complicate all this, when applying to graduate schools, you want to look for someone who is a "tenured" or "tenure-track" faculty member (that's faculty that don't have "instructor" or "teaching" after their title here: CS Faculty Page). Those faculty are research-oriented (rather than teaching-oriented) and their recommendations "look much better" to most graduate admission committees.
So the first thing we need to do is brainstorm better options than me on this scale before deciding that I'm your best option... So you ask yourself:
- Do I know any of my professors well? (For example, worked with them on a summer project. It's not uncommon for undergrads to say "no", so don't worry if that's your answer.).
- Do I know any of my professors in my subject area somewhat well? (For example, you took multiple classes with them.)
- Have I taken any "interesting"/"advanced" classes in the last semester or two? Were any of those faculty in the area I want to work in?
Now, after all that, if you think I'm your best option:
- Complete this form which gives me information on how to submit the recommendation, permission to discuss your grades, etc.
- Email me to request the recommendation and attach the completed form
- Meet with me to discuss the recommendation either in-person or over Zoom (let me know which you'd prefer in your email)
I'm also happy to meet just to discuss the above advice or help you brainstorm options!